2021.10.25 16:29 Unicorn_Burrit0s Santa's sack is so large because he only comes once a year.
2021.10.25 16:29 Equivalent_Market_94 What is something we all take for granted?
2021.10.25 16:29 EDfloppy Partner(M38) helps me(38F) with stuff around the house, but only if I ask/tell him to.
I don't know if I'm being unreasonable (he says so, and we had an argument about it over the weekend). I don't mind asking him to join in sometimes, like when I wash dishes I'll say "hey come on you dry them" and we happily do the job together. He does the same on the weekend, usually Saturday night or Sunday morning he'll start washing dishes and ask me to come and dry them.
But there are times where I swear he's just acting like he's oblivious to what's going on around him on purpose. He says how is he meant to know I want help unless I ask.
For example, if the weather is bad, I'll wash a few loads of laundry and dry them at the laundromat. Then when I get home, I'm lugging in 3 large laundry baskets by myself (I have 3 kids, so there's a fair bit of laundry to do). He'll smile and say hi but just sit there and I'll start folding and putting away the washing and he doesn't think to join in and help. Where as I would automatically join in without needing to be asked, he will just carry on video gaming etc.
When I go grocery shopping, he won't help bring in the stuff and put it away unless i ask. On the rare times he shops, I naturally keep an ear out for the sound of his car and then get the front door open and help put stuff away.
If he's unwell, I'll go drive to pharmacy and get him stuff. He would if I asked, but wouldn't think to take care of me unless I specifically point out I need this and that and can tu go get it.
If I wash the dishes without announcing it, even if he sees me washing, he won't come and dry them and swears black and blue that he just doesn't notice that I'm washing them. Then sometimes gets angry that I didn't ask him to dry them, but for fuck sake, you talk to me and look at me while I'm washing!
He says he likes being asked to help, I say I'd like it if sometimes I didn't HAVE to ask and we keep getting grumpy at eachother over it.
For context this is his first time living with a female partner and I've had a previous 18 year relationship with a narcissist who never once did anything in the house. Never even cooked one meal.
I know I'm going to be told to be grateful for a man that even wants to do anything but I'm not willing to set my bar that low, all adults should do jobs around the home. I don't need to be asked to do things, so why does he?
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2021.10.25 16:29 FluffyPanda33ASMR Hair Cut & Makeup for HALLOWEEN (Mouth Sounds ,Personal Attention & Gloves)
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2021.10.25 16:29 Ali__Assaad [H] ltc 7$ [W] 10$ walmart
2021.10.25 16:29 ComprehensiveDate591 How do they shoot without damaging the omnitrix?
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2021.10.25 16:29 Briankelly130 I'm unable to transfer PSP DLC files from my PS3 to PSP (Version 6.60) (Error Code: 80029780)
I got my PSP running again earlier this year but because I changed routers since the last time I used it, my PSP can no longer connect to the internet (it doesn't support the new form of a WEP key). I updated my PSP through storage media and I was planning on transferring DLC files from my PS3 to PSP (I did it before but that was 10 years ago).
Now when I connect my PSP and try to copy the files, I keep getting the error code 80029780. The PSP does connect and the PS3 does recognize it (I can even access the save files on the PS3), it's also on Version 6.60 so I don't know what the issue might be.
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2021.10.25 16:29 Robbiewan Cool dude
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2021.10.25 16:29 izzytheewizzy Need help with this MacOS Monterey & Big Sur issue!
2021.10.25 16:29 loulori Still processing what I was told about myself
I feel like my time at SBC/conservative churches was like low-key bullying, particularly about my romantic viability. I know a lot of this is the result of purity culture, and the shortage of men in the church creating unnecessary competition, and misogyny, but it still impacts me.
Like, I was turned down by virtually every guy I liked, and because I was never much of a joiner, when a guy at church did show interest in me I would be warned off him by a group of women who were "looking out for" a friend who had been buttering him up for a while. This happened well into my mid-20s. When I would lament not dating it was heavily implied God was withholding my spouse until I was godly enough/appealing enough to be a good wife. Think about that. I barely dated. No one wanted me. When I was sad about it I was told it was because I wasn't want-able! The few guys who were openly interested were creeps who often lacked basic hygiene/human communication. When I rejected them I was told I was exacting and my standards were too high. By my late 20s my parents started suggesting I could perhaps marry a widower who needed someone to care for his kids.
I've been happily married for five years now to an agnostic man but I still struggle to feel like I'm bringing anything to the table. In the last month or so Google has been throwing a lot of old pictures my way. And guys. I was really pretty! What? And this week two other women told me I was gorgeous. What? I'm not sure a single guy told me I was pretty until I was in college, and none who were Believers. I thought I was plain at best. Only my husband has ever frequently complimented me.
How do you get out of this ingrained sense that you shouldn't have nice (romantic) things?
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2021.10.25 16:29 TheDailyNick Nick Jr. Lullabies - Owls (2006)
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2021.10.25 16:29 randomuserofdestiny Blind run on far cry 6...literally
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2021.10.25 16:29 kbr8510 What is a good career path these days?
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2021.10.25 16:29 Sub2Blays A Weekend in the Life of Blays
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2021.10.25 16:29 RCSounds36 🔴 Cyberpunk Radio 24/7 🌐 Aesthetic Vaporwave, Ambient, chill // relax // work 🌌 [VILL4IN]💀
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2021.10.25 16:29 ignorantwanderer Great way to travel in retirement: what locations would you choose?
I've just come up with a genius idea for retirement.
Get together with 24 friends and family members and buy 6 properties around the world, each property with 4 units (for a total of 24 units....see where this is going?)
Then stay at each location for 2 months a year. When you move to a new property, you get to hang out with 3 new friends or family members.
You get a change of scene every 2 months, but you get to know each location because you stay there for 2 months every year.
So if you got to choose 6 places to live during your retirement, where would you choose?
I would probably choose:
2021.10.25 16:29 mikobaby Love Quinn from “YOU” Sakks Fifth Top - Help Me Find a Dupe!
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2021.10.25 16:29 OrangeJr36 Konrad Majewski's Tomb Raider Legend Reimagined cover.
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2021.10.25 16:29 DrDisco21 I got hacked, fixed it during the first four class periods of today, and then come to find out I still got my account disabled for TOS stuff I didn’t violate.
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2021.10.25 16:29 maybe_babyyy_ [Canada] - New hire product
2021.10.25 16:29 marycodes23 Need help with C++ homework.
My C++ teacher for my past 2 classes has been horrible. She doesn't help when we need it and the tutors at my school don't either. I just need help getting started on this first project. I"ll seriously take any help I can get.
Problem: You will create the implementation of a Polynomial data type. Specifics: I will provide the Polynomial class specification and a driver program to test your Polynomial class. It is your job to fill in the methods/functions I have specified.
Data Representation: Your Polynomial will be represented as a 21-term integer array. The index to the array represents the degree. The value at a given index is the coefficient for that degree. Since there are only 21 terms, your highest index will be 20 and your lowest 0. Therefore, your highest exponent will be 20 and your lowest 0. Let’s assume we wanted to store the following polynomial: x20 + 3x16 + 15x4 + 2x3 + 16x2 + 5. In the instance of such a Poly, our terms array would look like the following: examplePoly.terms
Degree 20 19 18 17 16 15 14 13 12 11 10 9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 0 Coeff 1 0 0 0 3 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 0 15 2 16 0 5
Poly.h file: #ifndef POLY_H #define POLY_H #include
Main Driver provided:
// Feel free to change this main program as you wish. // You may find it easier to use to read polynomials // from a file rather than from standard input #include "Poly.h" #include
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